We know that marriage is a process and it’s entirely challenging to handle. So much for that, we are all guilty of making mistakes. Some of them can be both intentional, and some are not. After all, we are all human. And despite the idea of “happily ever after,” the truth is there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. “If you’re angry, sad or hurt, that’s information your husband needs to know.” The next time you have a bad day at work, send a warning text before you get home, Dr. Michelle Golland, PsyD, suggests.